心に残る一冊の本があります。中学生のときに読んだ、宮城まり子さんの「ともだち ねむの木 そして私」です。
自閉症、登校拒否の子供たちのための専門塾で教えた学生時代の経験、留学先で感じた日本とアメリカの福祉環境の差。それらをきっかけに、病気やハンデにより学校へ行くことが困難な子供たちが、自立するために何が必要かを考え、遠隔地教育・能力別学習法などについて学びました。
また、障害を持つ人たちとの出会いから、日本の福祉や障害者制度について知る機会があり、日々の生活の中で、彼らができること、私達ができることは何か、について思いを巡らせるようになりました。
宮城まり子さんの本に出会ってから、長い年月が過ぎました。
いじめをきっかけとした不登校やひきこもりが表面化し、心の病を抱える人が増えました。しかし、そのような状況下でも、まず、家の中でできることがあります。それは、「自分の身の回りを整える」ということです。
物の整理は心の整理。そして、考え方や生き方の整理につながります。自分の身の回りの整理は自分でするトレーニングを重ねることは、生活していくためにとても大切です。情報や物があふれる社会の中で、必要な物・必要な情報を自分で選択でき、心身が落ち着く場所・時間を自ら作り出せる力を持てるよう、物の整理や心の整理のお手伝いができれば幸いです。
There was an unforgettable book I read in junior high school: “Friends, Nemunoki and then, me” by Mariko Miyagi.
During university years, I taught in specialized cram schools for autistic children and those who refuse to go to school. While studying abroad, I noticed the difference in welfare environment between the U.S. and Japan. From these experiences, I wondered what is necessary for these children, who have difficulties going to school due to illness or disabilities, to become independent. I studied about distant learning and ability-specific learning programs.
Furthermore, by meeting people with disabilities, I became acquainted with the Japanese welfare system and that for persons with disabilities. I began to ponder what they can do for themselves and what we can do for them, in everyday life.
It has been a long time since I encountered Mariko Miyagi’s book.
School refusal due to bullying or shut-ins are becoming more noticeable; people with mental illness have increased. Nevertheless, even under such circumstances, there is something one can do at home for a start. That is “organizing one’s own belongings”.
When we organize things, we organize our mind. Such organizing is connected to how we think and have our being. To repeatedly train a person to organize his own belongings by himself is very important for his survival. In this society overflowing with information and things, I believe for one to decipher what are the essential information and things, and to have the strength to create a place and time of tranquility, can be achieved by organizing one’s belongings and mind. It would be my greatest pleasure to be of assistance to this endeavor.